They assume Thai mail order brides are into the flesh trade but nothing can be far from the truth.
Asian women are conservative and have traditional values.
I had a relationship with one of them for over a year.
When western men think of Thailand, massage parlors and go-go bars are the first things that come to their mind.
A large number of foreigners have already married Thai women. What are the advantages of being married to a woman from Thailand? A foreigner who is legally married to a Thai woman is entitled to a visa and can live here with his wife. Your Thai bride expects you to love and respect her parents. If your lady invites you to meet her parents, it is a clear gesture that she is interested in marrying you.
Thai brides don't mind marrying western men, because westerners are richer than Thai men and also less prone to abusing them.
In Asia itself, the most common complaint I have heard from women is cheating men. Worked two jobs, while he sat at home all day and smoked pot.
It seems they are really tired of it, so they look for western men who they perceive to be less likely to stray. I have a cousin, not my most favorite person in the world, nor do I ever see him, only hear stories from my grandmother. I don't even think he treats her with much respect. They make fun of her being Thai, and alarmingly, have started to teach her about racism. She has an engineering degree, while he didn't finish high school. She got to come here, but sadly, she's bearing the burden of it.